Stop dating emotionally unavailable men
Women have been indoctrinated to talk about their emotions all their life.Men were taught to ‘be a man’, ‘toughen up’, ‘don’t show your emotions’.The same goes if he lives thousands of miles away and you can't deal with long distance relationships. Whatever the issue is that makes him unavailable, run it through the filter of compatibility and then decide. "Start dating other guys and give someone a chance to steal you away from him. The appeal may still be too strong for you and if you're willing to pay the price, have at it. Great choices and great guys are waiting for you when you stop picking painfully unavailable men.You may say, "That's great James but it's too late now.
He said he was in the process of divorcing, that we were monogamous and that he wanted a future with me. I guess it could happen but the key thing is to recognize if a man is not right for you sooner rather than later.The other weekend, my friend had a drunken bar makeout with a dude who turned out to have a "sort of" girlfriend.